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A Guide to Engagement Ring Shopping

Ready to start looking for an engagement ring for that special someone in your life? We've gathered some tips and trips to help you feel confident about your shopping journey.

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A standing couple with one holding out their hand with an engagement ring.

That all important engagement ring purchase comes with a lot of pressure — will I choose the right stone? The right style? The right shape? If you are feeling overwhelmed then take a look at our guide to engagement ring shopping with some great advice from the team at Gear Jewellers in Dublin.

Before You Shop

An arrangement of gold and silver engagement rings with different coloured stones.

Before you go shopping for that perfect ring, there are a few things you can do to help make the trip a little easier.

1. Establish Your Budget

Gear Jewellers tell us that you should “establish your budget. You don’t have to spend two months' salary, spend more or spend less; just make sure you have a figure in mind before you go.”

2. Take Note of Your Partner’s Current Collection

When your partner’s back is turned, take some time to have a rifle through their current jewellery collection. Do you see a trend emerging? If all the jewellery is yellow gold, then you might want to think about a yellow gold ring. Alternatively, if it’s all silver in colour, then think about white gold or platinum. Hopefully, you have a good idea of your partner’s tastes, but a quick look through their current collection could be helpful.

3. Plan Ahead

Gear Jewellers explain why you should plan ahead — “Don’t forget these things take time. You may need to save up, or it could take your jeweller a number of weeks to set the stone, do any engraving, or even custom design your ring.”

At the Jewellers

Two gold and two silver engagement rings propped upwards in a case.

As you head to your chosen shop or shops, see what top tips can help you pick a perfect style.

4. Discuss the Stone

Particularly if you have chosen a diamond, talk through the jewellers about what stone is right for you. It’s likely you would have read up on the 4 C’s but take advantage of the in-depth knowledge your jeweller will have and ask any questions you have.

5. Make Sure You Feel Comfortable

If in doubt, don’t! If you don’t feel sure about the ring you are purchasing, then shop around, do more research, or ask a trusted friend or family member of your partner to offer their assistance. Sometimes you just need a second opinion to help you confirm your choice.

6. Discuss Return and Re-sizing

Ask your jeweller about their return or exchange policy, just in case your partner wants to change the ring (hopefully this won’t happen, but it’s worth knowing the information!). It’s likely the ring may also need re-sizing after you pop the question so it fits your partner’s finger perfectly; see how long this is likely to take.

After the Jewellers

A simple gold and diamond engagement ring being held up.

Take a look at some tasks to complete once you have made that important purchase.

7. Appraise and Certify

It’s a good idea to get your stone appraised by a gemmologist to get an estimated value. You can also have diamonds certified by an independent diamond grading facility.

8. Protect

Gear Jewellers explain how important it is to “insure the ring, either with an independent ring specialist or on your home insurance.”

9. Relax!

You’ve done a great job and made your purchase! Now, it’s time to start planning the perfect way to pop the question. Check out some of Our Own Engagement Stories to get some inspiration.